Journeys with Autism

My daughter Ashlynne is a junior in high school. For her journalism class, she keeps a blog about events and issues of interest to her. After seeing autism in the news recently, she decided to write about the most recent and infamous Autism Speaks video. She sent me the link to her post and gave me permission to mention it on my blog. If you’d like to read her piece, you can find it here.

It’s very heartening to know that my daughter sees the issues so clearly and that she is sharing her knowledge with her peers. Way to go, Ashlynne!

© 2010 by Rachel Cohen-Rottenberg

I’ve decided not to pursue volunteering at the local school for autistic youth, and on Friday, I wrote a short email to my contact person to let her know. I’ve concluded that she is a very nice, enthusiastic, well-intentioned person who cannot focus on what I’m saying to her. I’m troubled that we weren’t able to have a meeting of minds, but I’m starting to put my energies elsewhere.

In the course of the entire process, however, I’ve found myself with a number of questions about the outcomes for teaching autistic kids—questions for which I have very few answers.

The school in town has a very focused and well-articulated mission statement. Its goal is to prepare students for paid employment, independent living, and integration into the local community. To these ends, the school a) implements an educational plan for each student that is largely driven by the special interests of the student, b) teaches independent living and vocational skills, c) provides training in social skills (such as how to make and retain friends, how to read nonverbal cues, and how to socialize in a group), and d) offers physical fitness and sensory integration work. The school makes use of different autism treatment options, including ABA, depending on what works for each student and family.

In short, the school’s aim is to integrate autistic people into the community by teaching them how to survive in a neuro-typical world. It’s a very good idea to give kids as many skills as possible for navigating the world they live in. The younger people who have posted to this blog have very positive things to say about the sensory integration work, social skills coaching, and other strategies that have helped them thus far. I wonder how we older autistics would be doing if we had had access to diagnosis and treatment when we were younger.

By the same token, I wonder what will happen to the younger people when they start to reach their thirties, forties, and fifties. Will life begin to feel more difficult because they have been making use of skills that do not come naturally to them? Will the work of integrating themselves into the larger community prove to be something they cannot maintain over the course of a lifetime? And if so, what support will be available for people who have been labeled high-functioning and have the resume to prove it?

I ask these questions because I have heard from so many people in mid-life who talk about the necessity of letting go of social adaptations that have become debilitating. I hear from people who feel housebound. I hear from people who can no longer work. I hear from people who have difficulty keeping food in the refrigerator because they have such an aversion to going to the grocery store. In other words, I hear from people like me.

I liken our situation to that of a friend of mine who had polio when he was a child. The illness left him partially disabled, but in his 50s, he began to feel unexpectedly and seriously debilitated. He found out that he has a condition called Post-Polio Syndrome (PPS). An article on the website of the National Institute of Neurological Disorders and Stroke describes the apparent cause of PPS in the following way:

“The poliovirus attacks specific neurons in the brainstem and the anterior horn cells of the spinal cord. In an effort to compensate for the loss of these neurons, ones that survive sprout new nerve terminals to the orphaned muscle fibers. The result is some recovery of movement and enlarged motor units.

Years of high use of these enlarged motor units adds stress to the neuronal cell body, which then may not be able to maintain the metabolic demands of all the new sprouts, resulting in the slow deterioration of motor units. Restoration of nerve function may occur in some fibers a second time, but eventually nerve terminals malfunction and permanent weakness occurs.”

In other words, the neurons that survive the poliovirus end up supporting not just the muscle fibers they were made for, but the muscle fibers whose neurons did not survive. After many years, the neurons that have been carrying all the extra weight begin to break down under the strain. The result is a second loss of functioning that can include increased fatigue, muscle weakness, and even muscle atrophy.

I raise this analogy because it so aptly expresses what many of us older autistics are feeling. We have an autistic neurology, and we’ve asked it to adapt, in a number of very complex ways, to the aims and values of neuro-typical society. After a lifetime of trying to pass, one person’s autistic nervous system can feel as though it’s done the work or three or four nervous systems. Last week, I said to Bob, “When you visit your frail 93-year-old father, please remember that how he looks on the outside is how I sometimes feel on the inside.”

I wonder whether the members of our “sink-or-swim” generation are feeling these effects because we had no educational supports, no therapy, and no explanation as to who we were. Perhaps because we were flying blind, we worked against ourselves for a long time, in a multitude of ways, and we unwittingly harmed ourselves in the process. After all, who wouldn’t feel tired after forcing a very sensitive neurology to support decades of neuro-typical activity?

Will the generation coming up fare better than we did? I hope so, but I have my concerns. In addition to learning social skills and sensory integration techniques, are the younger people being taught to have respect for being autistic? Are they being encouraged to value their autistic traits? Are they being taught to pay attention to their sensitivities? Do the people who teach them understand autistic people, or are they just looking to change behavior so that their autistic students will appear to be like everyone else?

So little research has been done as to the long-term effects of being autistic in a neuro-typical world. My generation, in its ad-hoc attempts to deal with a nameless condition, is all but invisible to the researchers. I hope the next generation will make itself better known.

© 2009 by Rachel Cohen-Rottenberg